Learning Beyond the Limits: Stories of Families in Kinarut Ria, Sabah
Home-based Learning Support (HBLS) is an online programme run by Malaysian CARE that supports children who have difficulty in studying, mainly focusing on the fundamentals of reading, writing, and counting. This article is written by Laila, Jane and Fatin, 3 mothers whom are really committed to supporting their children in HBLS sessions.
Every parent surely has high hopes and dreams for their children. However, parents often face a reality that is different from their expectations, particularly regarding their children’s academic performance. Parental and family support are crucial in ensuring that children stay motivated and persevere in their quest for knowledge. As we searched for a solution, we came across an NGO that uses online platforms to help children learn. After our meeting and discussion, we started our journey together in the HBLS.
Grab the chance – Laila*
“I was informed that Malaysian CARE staff were visiting that day, so I mustered up my courage to meet them and voice my concerns. “Can my kids come to class, Teacher? Despite being in Primary 6, my child is still illiterate. I don’t want them to be bullied at school. I want them to feel confident.” The staff member requested for my phone number so she could get in touch with me. She conducted an evaluation for both my children to determine their education level. It was not long after the assessment when their HBLS classes began.
To ensure they wouldn’t be distracted while studying, we would turn off anything that could be distracting if there was a class that day. We would remind them to use the laptop in the living room and to get it ready early. Occasionally, they would ask, “Is there a class today, Mom?” Nizam* can now read long sentences, although he is still learning how to put them together correctly. Nurul* also has improved; she was unable to identify letters but now she can read simple words. I hope this class continues so they may continue to improve.”
Regained hope through my friend – Jane*
“I saw my colleague’s child taking a virtual class in our rest area one day. I asked her, and she told me that there is an NGO that helps children with their studies. When I asked again if there was a fee, she told me that it was free. I am grateful to Rose* for introducing me to Malaysian CARE. At the very least, I wanted my daughter to be able to read, write and count. At that time, she was in Primary 2 but still had difficulty reading
Her older sister assists in setting up for her lessons each week, and thanks to these classes, Lily* is now able to read, write and count. She has also been assisting her brother, Aaron*, to set up for his classes. I hope that such classes will continue.”
Break the Mentality – Fatin
“My younger brother, Alif*, lived separately from us until he was 8 years old. When my mother took him back to live with us in Kinarut, she realised that he still couldn’t read. My elder sister and I thought of ways to help him. Thankfully, my sister’s mother-in-law shared a CARE staff member’s contact. My sister contacted her, and after an assessment, Alif* joined the online class.
My mother advised me not to force him too much to study, maybe because he is the youngest child, and she didn’t want him to feel stressed. But I disagreed because I know he must study. Before, his handwriting was bad but now it has improved. He can also read and type in a WhatsApp chat, although there are still spelling errors. Sometimes, he would even repeatedly read to himself what he has learned in the class if he gets bored at home.”
Words of encouragement from the parents
“A support system from the family is very important. To parents, sisters, and brothers who have children or younger siblings, please guide and support them for their future. Without your support, it will be difficult for them.” – Fatin
“Indeed, the hope of parents is for their children to succeed, but if that is too hard for them, at least they can read, write and count properly.” – Jane
“My message to parents out there is, don’t give up!” – Laila
*Name has been altered to protect identity.